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                        孩子一回家就讓他去寫作業?
                        2019年06月30日 16:22來源:網絡轉載 閱讀量: 145

                        孩子一放學回家,你就急著問他,“你作業寫完沒”“沒寫完趕緊去寫”......殊不知這句話背后,透露出多少你不知道的秘密。
                        請全天下的父母記住一句話:“孩子不怕累,不怕苦,怕的是不被理解,不被真愛!” 

                        不是“作業”出了問題,而是“愛”出了問題。 

                        很多父母一回到家,看到孩子第一句話是:“作業寫完了嗎?” 

                        這句話折射出中國多少父母愛的蒼白,愛的能力的缺失。 

                        孩子在內心中吶喊:“你們愛的是我還是我的作業?”孩子們無法理性表達內心的意識,只能用行為和父母對抗:頂嘴、磨蹭、坐不住、沉默不語、惹是生非…… 

                        有愛的能力的父母,一回到家,看到孩子,首先會和孩子打招呼:“寶貝,媽媽回來了,媽媽挺想你的,今天你累不累啊?別那么著急寫作業,玩一會再寫吧。” 

                        孩子往往因為父母理解自己而努力,“媽媽,我寫完作業再玩,我不累”。 

                        孩子只為“愛”而努力,如果不是為愛而努力學習的孩子,可能不是“真的努力”,隨著孩子長大很多問題會逐步顯現。 

                        換位思考,感受孩子。 

                        你累了一天下班回到家,想休息一會兒,不太想做飯,這時你的老公不關心你反而直接說:“飯做好了沒有!怎么還不去做飯!”你的心情會如何? 

                        你當時可能有兩種選擇: 

                        第一,生著悶氣去做飯,積累抱怨,直到抱怨到一定程度集中爆發,產生惡劣影響; 

                        第二種是表現自己的情緒,直接抱怨甚至吵架,當下就產生惡劣影響。 

                        換位思考,這就是孩子每天回到家里聽到“作業做完了嗎?”“怎么還不去寫作業!”的真實心情和“討厭父母”就是“討厭學習”的后果。 

                        請父母關心孩子飛得累不累。 

                        你累了一天下班回到家,想休息一會兒,不太想做飯,而你老公會關心地說:“老婆怎么了?累了就不要做飯了,我們出去吃飯吧!”你會覺得老公真好,內心的疲憊很快會消失:“別出去吃了,我馬上給你做。” 

                        當人被理解被關愛的時候,是最愿意付出努力為關愛和理解自己的人的。 

                        請父母千萬不要關心孩子飛得高不高,一定要關心孩子飛得累不累,孩子需要的是愛,而不是要求。 

                        當家長真愛孩子的時候,孩子會對自己有要求;當孩子對自己沒有要求的時候,你會發現,這個孩子不是生活在“缺愛”當中,就是生活在“溺愛”當中。

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